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Letter To OSU- A Quick Glimpse Into Layne’s & My Life Together (Part 2)

Many would say Layne and I had a fairytale kind of love.  We had a love that many spend their whole life trying to find.  It was patient, kind, and unconditional. I will forever miss how Layne always looked at me with such love and adoration.  We understood each other in a way that no one else could. We both loved reading, learning, traveling and agriculture. We pushed and motivated each other to be the best we could be.  Most importantly, we love and accepted each other for who we were. Layne was a man of God, uplifting, intelligent, driven, compassionate and strong. Luckily, we knew how much we meant to one another because we told each other every day.  He made me feel loved, wanted, secure and confident. There will never be anyone else like my dear Layne.

Read: Letter To OSU- A Quick Glimpse Into Layne’s & My Life Together (Part 1)

Layne and I both attended OSU, and while we didn’t live together, we spent every day together.  We worked out together, made lunch and dinner together, did homework together, and just spent time together hanging out, watching TV, and so much more.  This semester we even had a class together. It was every Monday and Wednesday from 8:30 a.m. to 9:20 a.m. and also a lab on Monday. Our other classes got out at the same time on Tuesday and Thursday, so this semester it seemed like we were together all the time.  I can’t bear the thought of walking to my 8:30 without my best friend by my side and then sitting in the 4th row by myself with an empty seat to my left where he would normally be. It pains me to think of getting out of my class on Tuesday and Thursday at 4:45 p.m. and have to walk alone without Layne to greet me with his loving smile and strong hug after a long, hard day.

After Layne’s passing, I have been trying to find my new purpose and my “new normal.”  I have been trying to find how God wants to use this to influence and help others. I’ve also really depended on the love and support of my friends and family. I lost my best friend, my rock and my soul mate. I didn’t just lose my soul mate, but my brother lost his best friend, roommate and brother.  My mom lost a friend, history buddy and son. My dad lost his best companion, right-hand man, cattle consultant and a son. I along with my family are not sure how to go on without him, but we are learning how. My family needs me right now, and I need them even more. I attend church every Sunday with my family.  Also, I attend Grief Share at my church on Thursdays, and it has helped me tremendously. I need to be home to stay involved in my church which has played a huge role in my steps towards healing and my “new normal.” I know after time spent with family, studying the word of God, traveling, and being home helping on the farm, I will come back in the fall stronger than ever.  I am determined to finish strong, but right now I just don’t have what it takes to do that. I need time for healing. I need time to figure out who this new me is without the person I have loved and depended on for 7 years. I have been a 4.0, involved student, and I plan to continue to be that student if allowed the time needed to heal and recover. It is with sorrowful tears that I finish this letter.  This was extremely painful and hard to write, but I hope it give you a small glimpse into how much Layne meant to me. Thank you for your time and consideration.

Sincerely,
Hannah Darr

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